thanks for the response, yes that's the same guide I check before I post this question,
and with regards to your statement that WP_MAX_MEMORY_LIMIT and php-max-mem are not the same, uhm but looks like it has the same function or let's say effect? ( could you please elaborate why this is so? )
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what I have been trying to solve and asked if it's possible to set this WP LIMIT to higher value ( to all sites via webinoly )

currently only achievable by adding on define( 'WP_MEMORY_LIMIT', '128M' ); wp-config.php file, mannually per site..